| Location | Derby And Peterborough |
| Age | 54 years |
| Cause of Death | Heart Attack |
| Date of Birth | 18/12/1953 |
| Date of Death | 13/04/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,793 since 23/04/2008 |
| Creator |
clive bridgewater/ben calhoun
1953/2008
aged:54
from:derby and peterborough
NO MATTER WHAT I SAY OR DO DOES NOT TAKE AWAY THE PAIN AND HURT I AM FEELING RIGHT NOW SWEETCHEEKS ALL MY LOVE FOREVER BABES..MAUREEN XXX
Ben was my loving partner and a loving dad to matthew bridgewater and harley jacob carry, ben was taken away from us on the 13 of april suddenly, he may not be here for them he loved in body but will always be around us in spirit, ben's sons matthew who is 19 and harley jacob who is 2...we will always remember all the good times spent with ben he was a real gentleman and a loving dad, harley will not have the pleasure of growing up with his dad but he will certainly never forget his dad and i know that ben will always be around to protect his sons...ben i will never stop loving you you were my friend and my soulmate and my lover and no matter what u will always be in my thoughts and dreams, keep shineing bright sweetcheeks i will always love you babes.....harley blows his daddy a kiss eveynight and tells him he loves him catch them kisses sweetcheeks and treasure them you may be gone but never forgotten,one thing for sure ben you will always live on in your sons ... loved and missed by everyone nite nite sweetcheeks and see you soon all my love forever maureen and baby harley xxxxx
In the candle light..............
Though darkness fills the reccesses of our mind,
We are never parted, for in the candle light we'll find
all the love & all the joy that your sweet memories bring,
each one a blessing and a comfort bring.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Rockin' in heaven......Mr DJ........
Christmas is coming, the time you loved best,
when all the Bull & Dolphine 'Sinners' .......!!!?
would put you to the test,
"Can you play us 'so-n'- so? " you had no time to rest.
All the golden oldies,the rare ones & the shuffle,
O, how I miss those days Ben, how I miss you,
your gentle voice, your 'feathers' rarily ruffled,
you were so placid, but always stood your ground,
when the sinners got a little!!!!!!!!drunk and
messed you around.
Just before you died, my friend,
you brought around a cd you had made for us,
of the B& D shuffle, what a great sound,
everytime we play it, we feel you are around.
So now that Christmas is coming,
it's party time in heaven too,
It's Jesus birthday & the heavenly host chose you,
to be the D.J for the night,
So heaven will be rockin' too,
and those of the B&D that are with you
will be doing the shuffle too.
Love you, miss you Ben.See you on the other side
in due course.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
3 yrs today
You touched life in such happy ways,
You listened with your heart.
And sunshine seems so hard to find,
Since we have been apart.
You left such lovely memories,
And each one's precious too,
But they cannot replace someone,
Who was loved as much as you.
In dreams, you smile at me,
And somehow seem to say,
This parting's not forever,
We will meet again one day.
No hour goes by without a thought,
Of things you did or said,
And that will always stay the same,
Throughout the years ahead.
*ღ..........*ღ*..........*ღ*..........*ღ*
I miss u so much ben it hurts, i still cannot understand it all, SHINE BRIGHT sweetcheeks loving u foreva and a day, xxxx......me and harley will be sending u balloons and a lantern later please catch them balloons there filled with love from me and ur little man harley, he still asks about ur often and its hard trying to get him to understand but u know how much he misses u and loves u and he always will... xxxx
harley
Good evening sweetcheeks, i aint wrote here for a while but u know i am always talking about u and thinking about u and i still say goodnight to u everynight, harley has been talking about u again a lot of the time today he said to me mummy its not fair my daddy stop breathing and his heart attacked him he should come out of the sky now and stay with us, i was like harley son ur dad is constantly with u he said so why cant i see him mummy its so hard ben explaining to ourr son whats going on he is 5 and he dont realise, well not much been happening here ben its all about working and kids, i miss u so much babes and think about u all the time i so wish things were different and u was here but hey god only takes the best, ok sweetcheeks time for me to put our son to bed and i will be back soon, love and miss u all the time SHINE BRIGHT BABES xxxxx
missing u sweetcheeks so much
God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be.So he put his arms around you & whispered come with me.With tearful eyes i watched and saw you pass away. Although i love you dearly, i could not make you stay.A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest.God broke my heart to prove to us he only takes the BEST.I miss u so much ben it hurts, i am gonna go out and have a pint of stella and lime ur fave drink fo9r ur birthday on saturday, loving u foreva and a day sweetcheeks....SHINE BRIGHT BABES xxxx love and hugs from me and out little man harley xxxx
Harley
Well sweetcheeks here i am again i can just hear u sighing and saying tut what does she want again lol, well it was out beautiful boy harleys 5th birthday on monday and hat a emotional day it was all i was thinking of was wishing u was around to see him and be with him, he is such a polite and pleasant kid just like u he has ur temprement, and he is always asking me to buy balloons for him so he can send them upto you so u have something to play with so i am hoping ur catching these balloons sweetcheeks, just 9 more days and its gonna be ur birthday ben i still cant get my head round this whole death thing its horrible u not being here in person to share our sons life but i know that ur always with him and looking over him, and i also know when your with me cos when i was at ur bedside before u passed i asked u to do something and let me know when ur around and i always acknowledge u when u do it, i miss u so much ben the pain is still raw its the worst feeling ever, i know u will be happy where ever u are and i know u will be shineing bright, right time for me to sign off for now i will be back soon, love and miss u so much sweetcheeks and i will never stop loving u.....SHINE BRIGHT BABES xxxx love and hugs xxxx
thinking about u
ello babe was just thinking about u and wish u was here with us all life so diffrent without u hun got so much to tell u see u soon babe sleep tight xxxx
Time....
Time cannot erase the memory of you Ben,
We love you now, we loved you then.
A Friend & sometimes were a bit of a pain 'pain'!,
but we would give anything to have you back again.
But you have stepped o're the great divide,
behind the mystery you hide,
And soon the day for us will come,
when we to shall cross and be with you,
and we will live in heavens great family as one.
Do the things we have to do,
'Till then we'll think of you and draw you close,
think on the things that we liked most,
say a pray to God above,
send our thoughts and send our love.
And one day soon we'll see you there and
have all eternity to share,
everything that's in our heart,
as Time will not then keep us apart.
R.I.P. Dear Friend, xxxxxDawn &Tony B.xxxx
Always the showman....Ever the Friend.
What can I say about you Dearest Ben?
We miss you so, the memories never end,
The bad times, the sad times, the good times
You'll always be the showman...our best friend.
Those days of fun and laughter,
brought memories ever after,
Times on which to reflect what used to be,
And how much you entertained us/me,
With your music and your banter,
Master of your talent, master chanter,
Who could fill the dance floor and keep it rockin',
Embarrass us, you were such a 'shocker'.
But it was done all in happy jest,
You'de put us revelers to the test,
the spotlight would go round and round,
Then stop and we would cringe..worried what you'd say,
Bow our heads and turn away,
But you would always 'get' us you little Devil,
And we would look for a hole in the ground,
To hide in till you'd moved on to someone else
and we'd sigh with relief, the moment gone,
then we would dance and carry on,
ever the showman...Always our Friend.
Dawn & Tony Bycraft.xxxx
Found you at last.....
Ben, Tony & I still can't believe you are not here with us in the flesh no more, but we know you are with us in spirit, ever the shining star you were.
I knew you long before you married & had children, ( I used to babysit for you when you lived in March, Cambs.) & Tony came to know you when we met & I introduced him to you at the B&D (GOOD OLD DAYS) We only saw you 2 weeks before your illness & wondered why you had failed to show up to our Dear Friend (your rival DJ & friend Bugie..'s funeral and were shocked to find out you had had a heart attack & were in hospital & even more shocked to find you had crossed over before we could get to visit you & eat the grapes we would have brought you!!!!!Seriously Ben, you had only just been to my Mum's funeral & my Son David's a couple of years before. We miss you so much and still have the cd you made for us a few weeks before you 'left' us, memories of the Bull & Dolphine shuffle, & band of gold (to name a couple of tracks,) We will always treasure it. Tony still goes to your old flat & sits in the car park thinking of you & the good times you had together when you took him with you on your disco circuite (embarrassing him when you put the spotlight on him & we won't mention the rest) GOOD JOB I COULD TRUST THE PAIR OF YOU!!!!!!!!haha!) Anyway my Darling, rest assured your memory will live on & we will not forget you...how could we when you have left such a great gap in our lives. Hope you have met up with Bugie & my David & Mum. Till we meet again keep the heavens rocking, play it again Ben!!!!!!Love & miss you always...Dawn & Tony Bycraft.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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